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Hi friends, it’s Jaylene + Aaron here,

Before we close out 2025, we wanted to take a moment to reflect and say thank you.

First and foremost, truly, thank you for reading, replying, sharing, and quietly bringing parts of this work into your life. Thank you for seeing health, habits, and relationships not as separate projects, but as something deeply connected.

This year marked 21 years together for us, and if there’s one thing we know for sure, it’s this: life doesn’t get easier, but it does get clearer. You start to see where your energy actually goes, what supports your relationship, and what slowly drains it. What helps you feel regulated, connected, and rested… and what doesn’t.

That clarity is what Sync + Thrive has always been about. Not doing more, not fixing everything—but putting simple systems in place that support real life, together.

Note: This is our final newsletter of 2025. We'll be back in your inbox on Tuesday, January 6.

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🧠 Why Intention Matters (Especially as a Couple)

We don’t subscribe to New Year's resolutions; however, we are big believers in this truth: if you don't plan intentionally, life will plan for you.

Life tends to crowd out the meaningful things first: connection, rest, play, shared goals, and even sleep.

As couples, we're often taught to play defense:

  • Reacting to demands

  • Putting out fires

  • Letting everyone else's needs come first

  • Wondering why we're short-tempered, disconnected, or exhausted

What if you start to play on offense? For one thing, playing offense doesn't mean being selfish. It means being strategic and choosing experiences that make you both feel emotionally alive. Protecting time for conversations that matter. Creating rhythms that support your nervous system, not fight it. Making decisions as a unit, not just as two people surviving the week.

When we stopped measuring our life and relationship against others and started asking, "Does this actually feel good for us?" everything shifted.

If you don't plan intentionally, life will plan for you.

🔁 TL;DR

Reflect on 2025, clarify what matters most, and plan 2026 intentionally, together. Take The 2026 Sync Check-In and try the Intentional Life Buckets exercise to build routines that support your relationship.

📌 Our Four Pillars of Shared Wellness

💛 Connection • 🟢 Movement • 🟡 Fuel • 🟣 Resilience

We organize weekly insights around these pillars to help couples optimize wellness together.

📊 The Small Choices That Add Up

Here are a few questions we've been asking ourselves, and now we're passing them on to you:

  • What's one winning habit you want to build together this year?

  • What's something you could eliminate that steals time, focus, or emotional presence from your relationship?

  • Have you talked about your 2026 highlight reel—the moments you actually want to remember?

  • Do you have a simple weekly rhythm to check in when life gets busy?

  • What would a monthly mini-adventure look like for you?

    • A one-night hotel stay

    • A spa or sauna date

    • A gym + lunch date

    • Mini golf, roller skating, or something playful and unexpected

None of these are rules; they're prompts. Because where you invest your energy in 2026 will either deepen your connection or quietly deplete it.

🤝 Help Us Shape 2026

As we close out our first year of Sync + Thrive, we’re opening a short check-in with our readers.

It’s our way of making sure what we build is grounded in real life. Your responses help us understand what’s supporting your relationship, what feels heavy, and what would make the biggest difference moving forward.

Take The 2026 Sync Check-In 👇
Your responses directly influence the tools, frameworks, and resets we create in 2026.

⚡ A Simple Exercise to Close the Year

Before we go, we want to leave you with something practical.

This is an exercise we learned through a cohort session and genuinely love. It takes just a few minutes and brings a lot of clarity.

Below you'll see a downloadable template. Each box represents an area of life you're building together; whether that’s marriage, family, business, finance etc. Name each box in order of importance, and write what you want to accomplish for each.

Note, some goals may be long-term and moved into the following years, while others will be for this year.

Intentional Life Buckets.pdf

Intentional Life Buckets.pdf

Your Intentional Life Buckets help you map out what matters most as a couple. Fill in each area: relationship, family, health, work, and more to clarify priorities and create momentum for 2026.

58.29 KBPDF File

The point isn’t to do it perfectly; it’s to see it clearly, because clarity creates momentum.

Couple's Check-in Prompt

Before you dive into your Intentional Life Buckets, take a few minutes together and ask:

Looking at our relationship, routines, and priorities, what’s supporting us, what’s draining us, and what’s one choice we can make this week to show up better for each other?

💌 Looking Ahead

As we head into 2026, our hope for you is simple:

Choose systems that support your relationship. Build routines that help you feel good together. Protect what matters most, on purpose.

Thank you for being here this year. We can't wait to build what's next with you.

With gratitude,

💛 Jaylene + Aaron, Sync + Thrive Team

One More Thing…

A quick ask before you go.

Take a moment to answer this poll 👇

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P.S…

If you have a requested topic to be discussed regarding couples health strategies, email us at [email protected] and let us know.

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